This show gives you a little bit of everything. I enjoy all the opinions from cast and i plan to use some of them. It has me interested in other sexual and nonsexual content.

After a long day & im full from dinner, fresh out the shower and im relaxing .. this is my favorite show to listen to and chill in bed while i scroll on my phone. I’m abstinent so y’all B lacing me up for when i get back outside.

Tahoe and Loon's podcast is an eye-opening, refreshing take on male sexuality and relationships, offering listeners a unique and much-needed conversation on topics that men often shy away from. What sets this podcast apart is the way they approach sensitive subjects with honesty and humor, creating an inviting space for men to learn about themselves and their partners. Tahoe and Loon's dynamic is engaging, and their guests from the sex-positive community offer insightful perspectives that challenge outdated norms. They address everything from the things men like and don’t like about sex to exploring new ways to communicate desires, needs, and boundaries in relationships. The discussions are always respectful, educational, and thought-provoking, making it a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of intimacy. Whether you're looking to expand your horizons or just want to hear real, raw conversations about sex and relationships, this podcast is an incredible resource. It’s informative, entertaining, and empowering—a perfect blend for listeners looking to explore more in their relationships and personal growth. Highly recommend!

Love the show, been listening from day 1. Tell Loon to stop clearing his throat every 5 minutes though.

Doesn’t matter what y’all talk about… I love each and every episode… EVEN THE ONE WITH KAOTIC AND SCRAPPY. My hard this week was the look on his face when I gave him head… My soft was him trying to give me that high school “Just the tip w/o a condom”

I look forward to this show every week BUT I get sooo disappointed when the whole two hours is talks about everything BUT sex. I don’t wanna hear about effective communication on this show. Save that for So Shameless.

I just started listening 2 weeks ago when I came across a snippet on insta. I’m 20 episodes in already and it’s entertaining from start to finish. And Loon… Loon... Loon… Yea you tuff 😂

Love the show, love to hear the men’s perspectives on sex and relationships, and I’m always looking forward to learning something new every episode (so far y’all taught me a lotttttttt) 😂😂 love y’all keep up the good work 🫶🏾

I absolutely love the open dialogue, it is hilariously informative & much needed...always good to hear the male perspective on things!! Years later, witnessing the growth of Tahoe & seeing him switch roles on the show….is priceless! #Salute💯

One of my favorite parts of the show was 106 & dark and not everybody has the funds to subscribe to the patreon. I’m just hoping some other people feel the same way so we can listen back to 106 & dark all together because I hate that u guys moved it.

Some voices are too loud others you can’t hear

I love this podcast. It’s helped me learn and evolve. It’s one of the only podcast shows where I am educated, entertained and stimulated 😌. LOVE!

I love the show but y’all need to stop smacking (with love)

i’ve been listening to this show since the very beginning. Ever since Tahoe had the idea on So Shameless, i just knew i was going to be a faithful listener. Very funny, insightful and informative. I’m even trying to get my husband to go to a kinks and drinks and then a full on play party! Definitely a great listen. Also, Loon be lying 🤣🤣🤣

This show is hilarious! I love the dynamic of all of the team. Just fyi, Butt Drugs is a family owned pharmacy that also sells merch with I ❤️Butt Drugs! This place recently closed down.

Loon is tuff -Loon

Episode 155 was ROLLIN! The thunderstorm, the balance between Tahoe and Loon plus Wes, Bacon, and Melly was perfect. Y’all really do create magic, Loon! I agree! This has become my favorite podcast to listen regularly and on time💪🏾

I love hard or soft podcast! As a lady, I appreciate the varying perspectives and personalities that many can identify with. You will learn and laugh in the name of love with them.

I’m new to this pod and when I say I been hooked for 3 weeks! I love it here 😂😂😂 Even tho y’all disrespected the 🤬 outta Aquarius and I love us 😂

That’s all. That’s the review.

Love love loveee this podcast. It’s GREAT for a laugh, good for different perspectives and even better for learning something new.

This episode is my new Fav. Ep! The energy & vibe was everything. I laughed, I cried, & then I cried laughing. #ImNotTryingToDieInHarlem

I think this podcast is something we really needed! My absolute favorite thing to listen to. Ive learned so much about the mental processes men go through! Thank you for that!

A must-listen for anyone navigating modern life, dating, and relationships! Tahoe does such an incredible job bringing fun and honesty to conversations that we all think about - but rarely talk about openly. Highly recommend listening and subscribing!

The content is so rich, you literally want to be apart of it. Tap in to discussion ms that can not only benefit your sex life but as a person in general. -BAYLORISM

Im going to give it 5 stars but you need a new co host… Loon jokes are DRY and comparing the episodes to when Orlando was there it’s no where close to as entertaining.

I really enjoy listening to this podcast. Whether I’m in the gym, commuting, chillin at home, whatever, I enjoy the topics and the guests and the maturity of both hosts. My ONLY issue with it is the audio can be too low some episodes. I live in NYC and even with my phone volume all the way up I sometimes can’t hear what’s being said when walking outside listening from my headphones. Then the ads come on and its LOUD! Outside of that, I look forward to new episodes weekly.

I love this podcast. I learn something new about men’s perspective every episode. Tahoe’s growth from the beginning until now is amazing. Orlando’s exit was a bit abrupt but his stories sometimes felt really graphic and almost took over the pod at times. The choice of guests always leave us the audience with a new perspective and teaches something that are quietly done but never spoken about. Keep up the great content!

Now that Orlando’s gone I can listen to the show again. He was getting too cocky for me always talking about himself. Yay Tahoe !

No disrespect to your white guests but having the feminism/masculinity dynamics conversation with white women can be a little cringy because the dynamics between black men and black women are a different experience. Ngl, them dominating Loon was cringe too after hearing that y’all don’t like watching black women with white men. I’m so glad that you guys had this conversation with a black woman.

I just started listening to hope to understand my man better and Holy F!!!! I’m having epiphany moments for myself!! And I’m only on episode 3!! You 2 are amazing!! Thank you

Everything Tahoe touches is pure gold! So glad a space was created for men, especially black men, to feel comfortable in their sexuality and in what they like! Thank you!

This show helped me love men better.

I absolutely LOVE the podcast! However it seems like some segments repeat. For example, Pastor Cory was talking about his friend and how he knew he had to expand his reach, but then he said the same exact thing after a minute or two of talking. It’s like the audio is layered, and the same thing is being played over and over. So I often have to skip ahead to get to the next part of the conversation. Otherwise I love it.

I’ve noticed your personal growth and willingness to open up different levels to yourself over the last year. Especially after that goofy left the show. Keep shining Bruh and bringing awareness and topics other shows won’t touch…

You're doing a great job Tahoe!

I’m so happy to see your new cover art magic and hearing the realization in your voice that YOU are enough. I absolutely LOVE this podcast. As a woman who’s in her 40’s and still peeling back layers, I come to this podcast and learn new things, find different POVs and/or a reason to challenge my own biases. So, THANK YOU for your transparency and vulnerability.

Loving the new cover art!!!! Keep going Tahoe!!!

This episode was so transparent and cleansing my God!! Great job Tahoe!! You got this!

First episode I've listened to. Some of the best conversation I've ever heard about men's feelings in relationships. Deeply moved and inspired to further examine my patterns. Thanks to you both.

Definitely feel the emotion coming through in this episode.

Love the content, love the vibes but please level the audio! I’m listening at work and when y’all laugh I’m deaf in one ear

Dope podcast, the conversations feel organic. It really is a safe space to have great conversations but my poor eardrum’s lol. Please laugh away from the mic !!! Yal killing me

Y’all both have the best conversations and I absolutely love how open and free you both are 😘. Xoxo Swan

Love the conversations and goofy nature of both hosts. My biggest beef is with the volumes. This is my 3rd headache from SUPER loud laughing or random screams before they back up off the mic to laugh loudly (which i appreciate but wish they would back up before the scream). I know and love our culture of being loud and proud, but please be considerate of earphone listeners in those moments. My other comment is to please please please stop eating on mic. That orange thing made me skip the whole episode. The chewing gum is downright ridiculous and ORLANDO… STOP “SMACK…AHHHHH” after every goddamn sip of your drink. I love the show. I really do. I want to keep listening but these issues will stop others (if not me) from continuing to tune in

Welll….where do I start? Tahoe is the man version of me. I swear listening to him I realize that maybe my problem is I tend to emotionally more male dominant in a bad way. From his earlier episodes to present I can relate.. I don’t know how to “GF correctly” and I can honestly say his path to self enlightenment has also given me comfort in knowing I am not the only one that thinks and behaves as I do!! I woulda snatch those cards right outta his hand too!! Cannot stop laughing. And to his Queen… you are def a champion cause no one puts up with my shenanigans and my mouth!!! Love you guys from a much older woman that is learning how to be free and Hard and Soft started it!! No lie

I was RELIGIOUSLY listening and taking in the great insight and advice, getting really horny too until it started getting weird.... The basics were way easier listening vs an apparent girl master bating that we can’t see and the guys’ commentary on watching it. Killed the vibe for me 🤷🏼‍♀️

Tahoes growth is amazing and the doors they are opening for african american men to be heard, seen and understood sexually is dope af!! Orlando is who he is unapologetically as a fellow Aquarius its amazing to see. This show is black excellence, one show opened the door, this show kicked the door down. Much respect. -Liz

I follow you guys on everything I love love this podcast

I’ve been a Tahoe fan since his podcast with cutty. This one is by far the best one!!! I love how open these guys are about their sexuality. I usually listen at work but at times I have to pause and continue at home due to the intensity of the episode. Keep doing what you guys are doing LOVEEEEEEEEE THIS PODCAST